Maybe You SHOULDN’T Own a Home-Part 2

Are You Really Ready to Own a Home?
Energetic Shifts in Real Estate 

In my last post, I shared a bit of tough love: homeownership isn’t for everyone—and that’s okay.

But how do you know if you are ready? Not just financially, but energetically, emotionally, and practically?

As a real estate professional, I’ve worked with all kinds of clients—some eager and well-prepared, others chasing a dream that isn’t quite aligned with their reality. So if you’re asking yourself, “Am I really ready to own a home?”—here are some key questions to consider:

1. Can you handle the upkeep—mentally and financially?
   Homeownership comes with a never-ending to-do list: HVAC servicing, roof maintenance, plumbing issues, lawn care, pest control—you name it. If the thought of unexpected repairs or weekend maintenance stresses you out, that’s a sign to pause and evaluate.
2. Are you ready to stay in one place?
   Buying makes the most sense when you plan to stay put for at least 3–5 years. If your job, family, or lifestyle could change soon, renting may give you the flexibility and freedom you need.
3. Does your current lifestyle align with the demands of ownership?
   Do you travel often? Work long hours? Prefer to spend your free time relaxing—not mowing lawns or troubleshooting a water heater? Homeownership might not align with your current priorities.
4. Are you emotionally prepared for the responsibility?
   Owning a home can be empowering, but it can also feel like a lot. There’s no landlord to call when things break. You are the landlord. That sense of responsibility can either feel grounding or heavy—know which one it is for you.
5. Are you trying to “keep up,” or does this choice feel aligned?
   Sometimes we feel pressure to buy because it’s “what successful adults do.” But buying out of obligation—or to match someone else’s timeline—rarely leads to peace. Trust your own path.

The Energetic Shift
The energetic shift here is about choosing from a place of clarity, not comparison. Owning a home should feel like a yes in your body—not just a checkbox on a life list. If you’re not there yet, renting or waiting is not a failure. It’s wisdom.

And if you are ready? Then let’s make sure the home you buy truly supports the life you’re building—inside and out.

Wherever you are on the journey, I’m here to guide you without pressure—just insight, support, and a real conversation.