Choose Your Circle, Choose Your Home

There’s a saying that’s been echoing in my mind lately:

“If you surround yourself with five ambitious people, you’ll be the sixth.
If you surround yourself with five kind-hearted people, you’ll be the sixth.
If you surround yourself with five creative thinkers, you’ll be the sixth.
If you surround yourself with five lazy people, you’ll be the sixth.
The people around you shape your mindset, your habits, and ultimately, your destiny.
Choose your circle wisely.”

And if I may cheekily add:
If you surround yourself with five homeowners, you’ll probably be the sixth.

Energy Is Contagious—So Is Environment

In real estate, we often talk about location, layout, and lifestyle. But what we don’t talk about enough is energy, the energy of the people around us, the neighborhoods we choose, and the environments we immerse ourselves in.

I’ve been experimenting with this in my own life. Surrounding myself with people who are intentional, growth-minded, and aligned with the kind of life I want to live. And while it wasn’t without its struggles, I’ve also seen real, tangible shifts—both personally and professionally.

Your Neighborhood Is Your Mirror

Think about it:

• Live in a community where people take pride in their homes, and you’ll likely do the same.
• Spend time with neighbors who host, gather, and connect, and you’ll find yourself more socially engaged.
• Surround yourself with people who are constantly upgrading, investing, and dreaming—and you’ll start doing it too.

The energy of your environment either lifts you or limits you. And that includes your home.

Real Estate as a Reflection of Self

Just like in the teachings of David Hawkins or Michael A. Singer, our external world often mirrors our internal state. When we shift our mindset, our surroundings begin to shift too. And sometimes, that means moving—physically, emotionally, energetically.

So, if you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or out of alignment, maybe it’s not just about the house. Maybe it’s about the circle. The community. The energy.

Ready to Shift?

Whether you’re looking for a neighborhood that inspires you, a home that reflects your growth, or simply a fresh start, I’m here to help you find it.

Because when you choose your circle wisely, you don’t just change your address.
You change your trajectory.

Let’s connect. Your next move might just be your most aligned one yet.

The Shift from “I Wish” to “I Will”: A Homeowner’s Mindset

Charles Dickens once wrote:
“The most important thing in life is to stop saying ‘I wish’ and start saying ‘I will.’ Consider nothing impossible, then treat possibilities as probabilities.”

It’s a powerful reminder that the life we want—and the home we dream of—doesn’t begin with longing. It begins with intention.

From Wishing to Willing

For a long time, I found myself saying things like:
“I wish we had more space.”
“I wish we lived in a quieter neighborhood.”
“I wish we hadn’t sold that house.”

But wishes, while honest, are passive. They keep us rooted in what’s missing instead of moving toward what’s possible.

So I made a shift. I started saying:
“I will find a home that fits our lifestyle.”
“I will create peace, wherever we live.”
“I will trust that every move has meaning.”

And while it hasn’t always been easy—there have been missteps, frustrations, and unexpected turns, there have also been moments of clarity, alignment, and success.

Real Estate as a Mirror

Homeownership is one of the most tangible ways we experience our inner world. The homes we choose, the spaces we create, the neighborhoods we settle in, they all reflect our beliefs about what’s possible.

When we shift from “I wish” to “I will,” we stop waiting for the perfect market, the perfect timing, or the perfect house. We start creating momentum. We start seeing opportunities where we once saw obstacles.

And that’s when the magic happens.

Possibility Becomes Probability

Dickens challenges us to treat possibilities as probabilities. That’s not just optimism, it’s energetic alignment. It’s the same principle echoed in the teachings of Abraham Hicks, Michael A. Singer, and Vadim Zeland: when we align our thoughts, emotions, and actions, the universe responds.

In real estate, that might look like:

• Taking the first step toward downsizing or upsizing.
• Exploring a neighborhood you’ve always admired.
• Saying yes to a home that feels right, even if it’s not what you expected.

What’s Your “I Will”?

Whether you’re dreaming of your first home, considering a move, or simply reimagining your current space—ask yourself:

What have I been wishing for? And what would happen if I turned that into a will?

Let’s Make It Happen

If you’re ready to shift from “I wish” to “I will,” I’m here to help. Whether you’re buying, selling, or just exploring, let’s turn your possibilities into probabilities—together.

Reach out today. Your next chapter is waiting.

The House Was Perfect—So Why Did We Leave?

There’s an old saying:
“Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, undone, or forgotten, so take it as a lesson learned and move on.”

Sounds simple. But when it comes to real estate, especially the homes we live in and love—those lessons can feel expensive, emotional, and deeply personal.

We once lived in what we thought was our forever home. It had everything: space, storage, style, and a location that checked every box. But life shifted. We were traveling more, and the estate-sized lot began to feel like more of a burden than a blessing. So we made a move—downsizing into a gated community we had always admired from afar.

And we hated it.

The neighbors were too close. The floor plan was a masterclass in wasted space. And the HOA? Let’s just say it was a crash course in the art of micromanagement. So, we pivoted again—this time to a high-rise condo in a historic building. A dream, right?

Not quite.

The views were stunning. The location was unbeatable. But the building was tired, the management was worse, and the experience was—honestly—miserable.

Eventually, we found our way back to our original neighborhood. Not the same house, but a new chapter in a familiar place. And while we’re still making it our own, five years later, we often catch ourselves saying, “We should have never left that perfect house.”

But then we pause.
And we remember:
If we hadn’t left, we would never have known.
Never know what it’s like to live in a gated community.
Never know the reality of high-rise living.
Never know what truly matters to us in a home.

Real Estate Is Energy in Motion

Every move we make, whether it’s across town or across the country—is an energetic shift. It’s not just about square footage or zip codes. It’s about alignment. About discovering what supports your lifestyle, your peace, your growth.

Just like in the teachings of Abraham Hicks or the philosophy of Transurfing, we’re always navigating parallel realities. Each home, each decision, each “mistake” is simply a stepping stone to greater clarity.

So, What’s Your Next Shift?

Whether you’re feeling the nudge to move, questioning a past decision, or simply curious about what’s next—know this:

There are no wrong turns. Only redirections.

And I’m here to help you navigate them.

Let’s connect. Whether you’re buying, selling, or just exploring, I’d love to help you align your next move with the life you’re truly meant to live